Sexual abuse is never okay. Sexual abuse is the hidden crime that every child is told “don’t tell anybody”. In today’s show we reveal the reality behind the illusion with my guest Shondale Wilhite who is an author, survivor, domestic violence advocate and speaker. This show is to empower those who have been violated to have a voice and mostly to prevent one more young person from being sexually, emotionally or physically violated. 

Shondale Wilhite recently published her first book “The Reality Behind the Illusion” which she talks about in this interview. The book inspired her to tell her truths about the widespread epidemic of abuse and its generational curse line that has to be broken. The book was nominated to receive the prestigious “Henri Award” at The Christian Literary Awards December 08, 2018. Shondale’s ministry is to inspire and transform victims of domestic abuse and empower them to be able to take control over their own lives. Her advocacy for sexual and domestic abuse has become very dear to her, because she is a survivor and is determined to help make a difference in others lives.

BOOK: The Reality Behind the Illusion: Defeating Giants of Sexual and Domestic Abuse

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DrStem is a Licensed Psychotherapist, International Best Seller, Teen-Parent Expert, Wellness Coach, Certified Passion Test Facilitator, Certified John Maxwell Leadership Trainer, Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway Trainer, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and President/Founder of Global Counseling & Coaching Services, Inc. which focuses on speaking, training, workshops and seminars for teenagers, parents and women. She is the Host of the DrStem Show Talk Radio and Podcast on America Out Loud. DrStem “Life Plus”, is all about Motivation, Inspiration, Education, Empowerment and Encouragement. She is a teen-parent expert who understands that many teens are missing the parental or adult guidance they need during these challenging years. DrStem is on a mission to inspire, and empower teenagers and adults alike to feel the fear and go after their passions and dreams anyway. Her work is designed to bring HOPE, boosting confidence and encouraging others to live their lives Freely and Fearlessly.