As Maria Carey sang in her song “When you Believe”, there truly can be miracles when you believe, who knows what miracles you can achieve, when you believe, somehow you will, YOU WILL WHEN YOU BELIEVE.

Somehow, your life just seems a lot more difficult than others. My life felt that way April this year when I went through a traumatic personal experience. Well, I’d like to dedicate this show to those of you, who are going through a challenging period right now and who need a little support. Because of what I’ve been through this year and having pulled myself through many challenging times I have no doubt I will say something that can help you bounce back despite the odds.

Excellence can be obtained if you care more than others think is wise, risk more than others think is safe, dream more than others think is practical, expect more than others think is possible.”

You have to let go and stop the “I am a victim mentality”. When you ask yourself “why me”, you are intending to say that you do not deserve what life has handed out to you. It may be hard to have faith that you can overcome your problems, whilst you are in the thick of it. Yet, I need to remind YOU that we all go through valleys and peaks in our lives. If you are on a journey because you are being fuelled by a vision, have faith that what you aspire to bring about will come true. For more insight, coaching or guest requests, please email me at:

DrStem is a Licensed Psychotherapist, International Best Seller, Teen-Parent Expert, Wellness Coach, Certified Passion Test Facilitator, Certified John Maxwell Leadership Trainer, Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway Trainer, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and President/Founder of Global Counseling & Coaching Services, Inc. which focuses on speaking, training, workshops and seminars for teenagers, parents and women. She is the Host of the DrStem Show Talk Radio and Podcast on America Out Loud. DrStem “Life Plus”, is all about Motivation, Inspiration, Education, Empowerment and Encouragement. She is a teen-parent expert who understands that many teens are missing the parental or adult guidance they need during these challenging years. DrStem is on a mission to inspire, and empower teenagers and adults alike to feel the fear and go after their passions and dreams anyway. Her work is designed to bring HOPE, boosting confidence and encouraging others to live their lives Freely and Fearlessly.