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It’s Time To Write Your Own Obituary

It's Time To Write Your Own Obituary
The truth is, when your well-being isn’t a priority, just about everything goes downhill. For all of us, when life gets busy, personal priorities,...

Love & Misery Go Hand In Hand

Love & Misery Go Hand In Hand
Relationships can be Rewarding or Miserable. On the other hand they say Marriage is an institution, though for some, it can feel like a...

To Divorce or Not To Divorce…. that is the Question

To Divorce or Not To Divorce.... that is the Question
In this show I had the pleasure to interview Brother Femi Awodele, whose mission and passion is to help save marriages through biblical principles...

Healing A Divided America

Healing A Divided America
There appears to now be a divided America, and somehow we have to find a way to be ONE AGAIN and to have inclusion...

An Apology Could Change Your Life

An Apology Could Change Your Life 1
An Apology could change your life. No kidding! Almost like magic, an apology has the power to repair harm, mend relationships, soothe wounds and...

We Were Being A Product Of Our Circumstance And Not Of Our Decisions

We Were Being A Product Of Our Circumstance And Not Of Our Decisions 2
75,000,000 millennials are preparing to join the workforce, Millennials want to enjoy their work. They want to enjoy their workplace. They want to make...

“Because As I Said Life Will Happen” DrStem

"Because As I Said Life Will Happen" DrStem
When you are living a resilient life, you are living a fulfilled life, where you know who you are and you know what is...

Living Fearlessly Outloud

Living Fearlessly Outloud
Suicide is a tragic event with strong emotional repercussions for its survivors and for families of its victims. In 2014 there were  more than...

Unconditional Love, the Importance of Parenting From the Heart

Unconditional Love, the Importance of Parenting From the Heart 1
A child’s parents are the two people in the entire world that a child wants to love and trust more than anyone else. Many...

The Character of a Man, Don’t be an Adam

The Character of a Man, Don’t be an Adam
Fathers have a vital responsibility to teach their sons how to be strong and responsible men as they grow up. It is clear that in...

Are You Stuck in a Rut? Rodney Flowers Was Stuck in a Wheelchair Until…

Are You Stuck in a Rut? Rodney Flowers Was Stuck in a Wheelchair Until... 1
It was the third day of school of my sophomore year in 1993. I played football for the Lumberton High Pirates. It was our...

Bruised But Not Broken, 7 Lessons Learned and Shared To Live A Life of Hope

Bruised But Not Broken, 7 Lessons Learned and Shared To Live A Life of Hope
Dr. Sitembile Mahlatini (Dr. Stem) knows what it means to suffer emotional scars, heartbreak and fears that comes from living in an abusive situation....

When Will My Life Not Suck; 19 yr old Cameron Presson Presses On!

When Will My Life Not Suck; 19 yr old Cameron Presson Presses On! 1
Our teens are adults under construction. It’s our responsibility and privilege as adults and parents to show them the way. Teens learn as we...

The Constant Push and Search for The Next “High”

The Constant Push and Search for The Next “High”
What? No, not my kids! You mean my kids are using drugs? These are not isolated questions or reactions among parents today. Kids using...

How to Make a Man Do What You Want Him To Do!

How to Make a Man Do What You Want Him To Do!
If you came across a book titled The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want To Leave, Wouldn’t you want to know more? Would you wonder...

Single Mothers – Let’s Be Real

Single Mothers – Let’s Be Real 3
Many single moms are struggling whether it be spiritually, emotionally, financially or physically and a lot of it has to do with their life...

Raising and Teaching Black Sons To Stay Alive

Raising and Teaching Black Sons To Stay Alive 1
Headlines have been spreading like wild-fire with images of unarmed black men being killed by white police officers. Not for doing something wrong, but...

17 Tools & Strategies For An Unbelievable 2017

17 Tools & Strategies For An Unbelievable 2017
I am sure you will agree with me that FEAR puts limits and roadblocks in our lives. My friends it does NOT have to be...

If You Don’t Take Care of Yourself – Who Will?

If You Don’t Take Care of Yourself -  Who Will?
The best gift you can give to yourself and those you care about is a HEALTHY YOU. A balanced you. Wellness is more than...

Beyond The Scars

Beyond The Scars 1
Divine connections and times are those moments that God has preordained for us. They are priceless because God uses these moments to direct us...

Bounce Back

Bounce Back
People who soar are those who refuse to sit back, sigh and wish things would change. They neither complain of their lot nor passively...

“I’m Small On The Blah Blah” DrStem Talks To Malcolm

"I'm Small On The Blah Blah" DrStem Talks To Malcolm
"Everything I’ve done in my life leads me to this moment and to this conclusion – radio needs me and I need radio! Listen,...

Childless Not By Choice

Childless Not By Choice
The stress of trying and failing to have a child often leads both men and women into bouts of depression. For many the quest...

Kids Don’t Come With a Manual

Kids Don't Come With a Manual
Parenting is hard, especially when you have to do parenting after divorce. For more than twenty-five years, my guest today a distinguished psychologist Dr...

Overcoming The Holiday Blues 

Overcoming The Holiday Blues 
What if we believed that there are no coincidences in life? That even you reading this post is no coincidence. Perhaps you are reading...

Your Inner Soul and Your Outer Life Path, Meet Steve Wentworth

Your Inner Soul and Your Outer Life Path, Meet Steve Wentworth 2
For many people the beginning of a new year is a time to reflect, ponder, plan and to determine what happens next. The message today is most...

Mental Health and The Campus Life

Mental Health and The Campus Life
Recognizing signs of depression in yourself and others can be tricky. Everyone has off days, or times when they become overwhelmed with life, but...

Careers grow, Houses get bigger, Children arrive.. What Next?

Careers grow, Houses get bigger, Children arrive.. What Next? 2
Building a successful relationship is a lifelong challenge. Understanding the different stages and phases you'll go through as a couple may help you build a...

Get With It, Stop Letting Your Fears Control You

Get With It, Stop Letting Your Fears Control You
Have you realized that “We are our worst enemy”. We are halfway through the year... how is your life going? Are your plans going...

Do You Want To Be Right or Happy? Choose One!

Do You Want To Be Right or Happy? Choose One!
Imagine a relationship or marriage where your emotional needs are met. You and your spouse talk openly, you have fun on dates, and intimacy...

I Thought Gratitude Was Cheesy. Then Life Happened.

I Thought Gratitude Was Cheesy. Then Life Happened.
Yes, I used to think that gratitude was cheesy. Then life happened. There are events in life that will literally force you to be...