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DrStem Mahlatini

DrStem is a Licensed Psychotherapist, Teen-Parent Expert, Wellness Coach, Certified Passion Test Facilitator, Certified John Maxwell Leadership Trainer and Speaker, Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway Trainer, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and President/Founder of Global Counseling & Coaching Services, Inc. and 501c3 program for teenagers and parents The DrStem Multicultural Performing Arts Center. DrStem “Life Plus”, is all about Motivation, Inspiration, Education, Empowerment and Encouragement. She is a teen-parent expert who understands that many teens are missing the parental or adult guidance they need during these challenging years. DrStem is on a mission to inspire, and empower teenagers and adults alike to feel the fear and go after their passions and dreams anyway. Her work is designed to bring HOPE, boosting confidence to speak and live fearlessly out loud.

Are You Stuck in a Rut? Rodney Flowers Was Stuck in a Wheelchair Until…

It was the third day of school of my sophomore year in 1993. I played football for the Lumberton High Pirates. It was our...

“Because As I Said Life Will Happen” DrStem

When you are living a resilient life, you are living a fulfilled life, where you know who you are and you know what is...
Single Mothers – Let’s Be Real 3

Single Mothers – Let’s Be Real

Many single moms are struggling whether it be spiritually, emotionally, financially or physically and a lot of it has to do with their life...
Bounce Back

Bounce Back

People who soar are those who refuse to sit back, sigh and wish things would change. They neither complain of their lot nor passively...
Beyond The Scars 1

Beyond The Scars

Divine connections and times are those moments that God has preordained for us. They are priceless because God uses these moments to direct us...
Against ALL ODDS, Ms Fikelephi Jackson Is Still Standing 1

Against ALL ODDS, Ms Fikelephi Jackson Is Still Standing

Why is life so hard for me and so easy for everyone else? We all want to explore our dreams and live an abundant...
"I'm Small On The Blah Blah" DrStem Talks To Malcolm

“I’m Small On The Blah Blah” DrStem Talks To Malcolm

"Everything I’ve done in my life leads me to this moment and to this conclusion – radio needs me and I need radio! Listen,...
When Will My Life Not Suck; 19 yr old Cameron Presson Presses On! 1

When Will My Life Not Suck; 19 yr old Cameron Presson Presses On!

Our teens are adults under construction. It’s our responsibility and privilege as adults and parents to show them the way. Teens learn as we...
To Divorce or Not To Divorce.... that is the Question

To Divorce or Not To Divorce…. that is the Question

In this show I had the pleasure to interview Brother Femi Awodele, whose mission and passion is to help save marriages through biblical principles...
It's Time To Write Your Own Obituary

It’s Time To Write Your Own Obituary

The truth is, when your well-being isn’t a priority, just about everything goes downhill. For all of us, when life gets busy, personal priorities,...
An Apology Could Change Your Life 1

An Apology Could Change Your Life

An Apology could change your life. No kidding! Almost like magic, an apology has the power to repair harm, mend relationships, soothe wounds and...
Careers grow, Houses get bigger, Children arrive.. What Next? 2

Careers grow, Houses get bigger, Children arrive.. What Next?

Building a successful relationship is a lifelong challenge. Understanding the different stages and phases you'll go through as a couple may help you build a...
Love & Misery Go Hand In Hand

Love & Misery Go Hand In Hand

Relationships can be Rewarding or Miserable. On the other hand they say Marriage is an institution, though for some, it can feel like a...
Do You Want To Be Right or Happy? Choose One!

Do You Want To Be Right or Happy? Choose One!

Imagine a relationship or marriage where your emotional needs are met. You and your spouse talk openly, you have fun on dates, and intimacy...
If You Don’t Take Care of Yourself -  Who Will?

If You Don’t Take Care of Yourself – Who Will?

The best gift you can give to yourself and those you care about is a HEALTHY YOU. A balanced you. Wellness is more than...
We Were Being A Product Of Our Circumstance And Not Of Our Decisions 2

We Were Being A Product Of Our Circumstance And Not Of Our Decisions

75,000,000 millennials are preparing to join the workforce, Millennials want to enjoy their work. They want to enjoy their workplace. They want to make...
Healing A Divided America

Healing A Divided America

There appears to now be a divided America, and somehow we have to find a way to be ONE AGAIN and to have inclusion...
Your Inner Soul and Your Outer Life Path, Meet Steve Wentworth 2

Your Inner Soul and Your Outer Life Path, Meet Steve Wentworth

For many people the beginning of a new year is a time to reflect, ponder, plan and to determine what happens next. The message today is most...
How to Make a Man Do What You Want Him To Do!

How to Make a Man Do What You Want Him To Do!

If you came across a book titled The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want To Leave, Wouldn’t you want to know more? Would you wonder...
YES, Women have Value and Purpose!

YES, Women have Value and Purpose!

Sadly, women have been taught for many years that their value comes from an outside source. We have been led to believe our value...
17 Tools & Strategies For An Unbelievable 2017

17 Tools & Strategies For An Unbelievable 2017

I am sure you will agree with me that FEAR puts limits and roadblocks in our lives. My friends it does NOT have to be...
Unconditional Love, the Importance of Parenting From the Heart 1

Unconditional Love, the Importance of Parenting From the Heart

A child’s parents are the two people in the entire world that a child wants to love and trust more than anyone else. Many...
Raising and Teaching Black Sons To Stay Alive 1

Raising and Teaching Black Sons To Stay Alive

Headlines have been spreading like wild-fire with images of unarmed black men being killed by white police officers. Not for doing something wrong, but...
Attracting Your Ideal Love - Here Is How 1

Attracting Your Ideal Love – Here Is How

Some have said finding a lasting relationship can be difficult, especially if you have an idea of the perfect partner in mind. Being single in...
Living Fearlessly Outloud

Living Fearlessly Outloud

Suicide is a tragic event with strong emotional repercussions for its survivors and for families of its victims. In 2014 there were  more than...
Overcoming The Holiday Blues 

Overcoming The Holiday Blues 

What if we believed that there are no coincidences in life? That even you reading this post is no coincidence. Perhaps you are reading...